Oct 302011
 

Today is the one year anniversary of the day that Okey, the rescue cat who inspired the Okey’s Promise movement, was rescued from the parking lot behind my building. Or the day that I was rescued from a doldrum where I felt I needed a purpose for my art.

She pulled me out of the doledrum in many ways. The video above tracks our progression in developing a very special relationship, and, in my mind, shows how sweet and special the human animal bond truly is.

Thank you for rescuing me, Okey. Happy Gotcha Day, little girl!

BZTAT

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Oct 272011
 

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This is part of the Okey’s Profiles of Hope series, which highlights anonymous stories of courage and hope related to the issues of animal abuse, child abuse, and domestic violence. This story was sent to me from a follower of this blog.

Trudy’s Story

I remember reading a book that said that if a woman does not have a good relationship with her father, she will end up marrying a man like her father…. Well I guess that is what I did:  I married a man like my father, only worse.

I grew up in a home with an angry, critical father, and a self absorbed, distant mother.  I got out of the house as soon as I could.  I always tended to be attracted to the “bad boys”.  If a guy was nice to me, I dropped him like a hot potato.  And so I ended up marrying “Richard”.  Honestly, looking back, the warning signs were there before we got married, I just refused to see them.

Richard was angry and very critical, just like my father was.  We were married just two and a half years, but it was hell on earth.  I could not do anything right, the food wasn’t cooked correctly, the bed was made wrong, the house wasn’t clean enough.  He didn’t like me seeing my friends, kept me isolated.  Bullied me.

We bought a house in the country, contrary to my wishes.  We had 2 cats, a dog, and a pony.

The abuse started with the animals.  He kicked the dog, twisted the pony’s ear, and threw my little kitten against the wall so hard, I thought he had killed it.  I was seeing my pastor regularly to try and help me get through this, and I remember he said “If he is abusing the animals, he will abuse you.”

So I guess I shouldn’t have been surprised the first time he hit me.  I called the cops, and the cops talked me into staying.  The second time he tried to throw me down the basement steps, I don’t know how I hung on, but I did.  He was so angry he stormed out the back door.  I got my purse and left.  I didn’t even have a toothbrush.  I stayed with friends for about six months till I got back on my feet.

I had to leave my sweet kitty there, because I was sleeping on couches.  I still feel so bad for abandoning Dusty to that horrible situation.  If I could have taken him, I would have.

I wish I could say I met the man of my dreams and remarried, but that is not what happened.  I was never able to allow my walls to come down to be able to have a lasting relationship. My life has been full, and right now I have four rescued cats that are quite spoiled.  They are my family, and I love them dearly.  I have made some mistakes, and I have a lot of regrets, but I do NOT regret leaving Richard at all.

I admire Trudy’s courage to leave, and I appreciate her willingness to share her story. I also admire her for making the tough choice of leaving her pet behind in order to secure her own safety. Yes. I said that – I admire her for choosing her own safety over risking both hers and the animal’s safety.

Many women remain in dangerous situations because of not having a safe place for their pets to go. Although I am a STRONG advocate for the development of more safe places for survivors to take their pets, I also am an advocate for women to take charge of their own safety, too. Especially when children are involved.

Sometimes walls are good boundaries. It is not essential to be in a relationship in order to find happiness.

Thank you Trudy for being so honest. I wish you and all your pets great happiness!

BZTAT

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Oct 192011
 

UPDATE: Since writing this post, I have heard from people who have “exotic” pets that are not considered dangerous and are not deemed at risk because of domestication. I have no complaint with these individuals, provided that they adequately research and provide for their pets’ unique needs. In my opinion, any legislation brought forward needs to allow for reasonable care of non-dangerous animals by responsible pet owners.

I am very scanton-mountain-lion-art-BZTATad and very angry today.

A senseless tragedy has happened in my state of Ohio, and it was totally preventable.

Terry Thompson’s so-called exotic animal farm in Zanesville, OH is 91.4 miles from my home in Canton, OH. Yesterday, Mr. Thompson apparently opened the cages of over 40 exotic wild animals on his property, purposefully releasing them, then proceeded to kill himself, according to the Muskingum County Sheriff.

Faced with several dangerous wild animals on the loose, the sheriff was left with few options for securing the public’s safety. Killing the animals was the only viable option.

At this writing, most of the animals have been killed and only a handful recaptured.

I do not have complaint with the Sheriff’s choice of hunting down and killing the animals. I DO have complaint with Ohio’s governor and legislature for not taking action sooner to prevent the sale and ownership of exotic wild animals in Ohio.The sheriff should have never been put in the position of hunting down wild animals.

According to the Humane Society of the United States, Thompson, a convicted felon and convicted animal abuser, would not have been able to have exotic animals on his property if an emergency rule passed by previous governor Ted Strickland had been maintained. Our current governor John Kasich opted to allow the emergency rule to expire.

Ironically, Kasich claims that there were no resources to enforce the law. I wonder whose resources will pick up the tab for the law enforcement effort going on right now? It cannot be cheap to enlist deputies, state police officers, helicopters, zoo officials, etc. to track down wild, dangerous animals.

Ohio has been very backward in it’s attempts to address legislation affecting the care of animals. Communities often go over the top with Breed Specific Legislation, using very ineffective legislation to address the problem of aggressive dogs, yet they have done basically nothing to address the problem of puppy mills and exotic animal auctions/farms that create serious problems for humans and animals.

I hope that the international attention focused on Ohio currently will help Ohioans see the error of their ways.

This blog focuses primarily on the issues of domestic animals and the bond between humans and pets. I could not ignore this egregious example of animal abuse, however. When animals are abused, as they were in this case (inappropriate captivity, reportedly poor conditions in the past, animal hoarding, and intentional release into inhabited areas) humans are also in danger.

The Humane Society has been appealing to the Ohio authorities for a long time to address the lack of effective exotic animals legislation in the State of Ohio. They have released a statement about the Zanesville situation, and they have developed an action page for the public to voice concern on the subject. I hope that you will visit these pages and let your voice be heard.

I am sure that there are people with exotic pets who are well-meaning, good people. Wild exotic animals, though, are unpredictable, and for most, it is in their nature to be aggressive. Often, people who are ill-equipped to manage them “collect” (another word for hoarding) wild animals, thinking they are rescuing them. As in this case and another Ohio exotic animal farm recently in the news, the owners are people who have had troubles with the law and psychological instability. They abuse the very animals that they claim to rescue, and they put their communities at risk.

Ohio is one of less than 10 states that do not have legislation banning the ownership of wild exotic animals. Let’s hope, in light of the present tragedy, that will end soon.

BZTAT

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Oct 162011
 

The video above explains what National Feral Cat Day is all about. Best Friends Animal Society is a major leader in addressing the needs of feral cats and other abandoned pets. Many rescue groups look to them for guidance in developing shelters and and other programs for abandoned pets.

I think promoting awareness about humane treatment of feral cats is extremely important. Feral cats are at great risk for being abused and otherwise harmed by society, because they are considered a nuisance. Colonies of feral cats also tend to be harmed by children who are not well cared for themselves. We need to look for systemic changes to address the needs of both.

I have twice been contacted in recent weeks about feral cat colonies that were being abused by children and adolescents. Both colonies were tended by caring people. Both colonies developed around low income housing areas where there were other community problems. Both areas had poorly supervised children with behavior problems, many of whom had likely experienced trauma from family and/or community violence. In both situations, the caring individuals who tended to the cats had witnessed youngsters killing – yes outright killing – the cats.

Both situations seemed hopeless, BUT THEY WERE NOT. The woman tending the cats in this story written awhile back has now started an initiative to get Humane Education built into the curriculum of the local school district. The superintendent is backing the initiative, and a group of animal and child advocates are working together to develop the curriculum.

In the second situation, the county Animal Control Officer is working with the woman tending the cats to identify the child who killed the cat. Once the child is identified, the officer is committed to finding appropriate interventions for the child to insure that his needs get attention.

In both situations, the women who bring care to the animals were emotionally stressed by the traumatic events that they witnessed. The fact that they care and put themselves through such stressful circumstances proves to me that they are not only heroes for the animals, but also for the children who have been so misguided.

It is important for such caregivers to attend to their own needs, as it can be emotionally overwhelming to witness some of the human pain that gets directed onto animals. Finding positive solutions to addressing systemic problems can help. Addressing your own needs is important too. This article gives a good resource for coping with compassion fatigue. I encourage you to read it and follow the provided resources.

The most important thing is to reach out to others. When it seems hopeless, sometimes another person can see the silver linings that are not apparent to you.

Are you considering getting involved in helping with feral cats? Check out the resource rich Best Friends Animal Society website and follow the Best Friends Blog for all kinds of great information. Alley Cat Allies is another great resource.

You CAN make a difference for feral cats, and also for the people who cohabit their communities.

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From bottom left to right: Noah, Brewskie, Okey, Who, Slick

Here’s a photo of my fabulous five felines who were all once semi-feral cats or offspring of feral cats. They are now the rulers of my home. I only wish I could teach them to make the bed… Sigh. I guess you have to choose your battles.

So what are you doing for feral cats or other abandoned pets? What are you doing to ensure our children learn to respect them and act in humane ways?

BZTAT